Having very serious conversations about fictional universes is one of my favorite things to do.
Sometimes you need to remind yourself that you were the one who carried you through the heartache. You are the one who sits with the cold body on the shower floor, and picks it up. You are the one who feeds it, who clothes it, who tucks it into bed, and you…
white kid: if ur mexican why cant u speak spanish fluently :/
me: lemme hear u speak some of that 11% finnish 2% scottish 45% italian 31% dutch, 100% puta
not recognizing abusive behavior as abuse until you’re out of that situation is not at all unusual and does not mean your experiences are less real, less valid, that the abuse didn’t happen, or that you deserved it
#the hallmark of trauma is that it breaks your brain’s ability to build a consistent narrative#some researchers believe that’s the DEFINITION of trauma (via star-anise)
AND. Coming to the realization that something you previously thought was ‘just a bit tense’ or even completely A-OK was in fact extremely abusive it ROUGH AS HELL. Trust me, I speak from experience (my parents are fabulous people, but let’s call my extended family 'interesting’ and leave it there, mmmkay?) If you’ve got someone to help you through it, awesome, great (I had my mom, my best friend has me, someday she’ll help her sister, see how this works?), that won’t make it a lot easier because that’s not how it works, but it’s a pretty great thing to have someone who can confirm that you’re not crazy. But if you’re having to handle that realization on your own, I am so sorry, stay strong, you’re worthwhile, I love you so much, if you ever need to talk, you can talk to me.
don’t date someone who doesn’t put the grocery cart back in the cart return
It’s called creating jobs
actually its called ‘not being rude and making someone’s job easier’
The people who put the carts back after you leave them…
friendly fuckin reminder that Steve Rogers swears more goddamn times on screen than any other bastard in the entire MCU
god fuckin bless
Gay people can be racist
Gay people can be misogynistic
Gay people can be transphobic
Your problematic behavior is not excused because you have been oppressed. You are continuing the cycle of oppression to other marginalized communities and you of all people know better.
Shape. The. Fuck. Up.
i don’t care if a character is immortal i want to know their age. their exact age. i want to know how many centuries they’ve been around. if they died before they became immortal i want to know how old they were then. don’t give me that “age: immortal.” do not go there
my neutral expression makes me look like im always in a bad mood which is convenient because it’s usually true
There are seven year olds in America who have never had a white president
What a beautiful thought
the first generation not to think “why do we have a black president?” but instead “why did we have so many white?”
this pleases me greatly
the most important thing to me ever is bi kids knowing that it’s ok to be 10% attracted to women and 90% attracted to men or 10% attracted to men and 90% attracted to women and still feeling ok to identify as bi, and still feeling like their identity is valid, and still feeling like they can lead fulfilling lives with both (or other) genders. like that’s just so fricking important.
I’m a bi adult and you know what? I needed this. Thank you.
Lmao yeah Avatar was a really successful movie but there’s still that undeniable fact that their genitals are in their ponytails like wtf happens if you get a haircut
so then why did they wear loincloths??? explain that???
They also had boobs but no nips
We ain’t getting into avatar logisticsi thought this post was talking about the last airbender movie and honestly the most confusing part was calling it successful
^^ OH MY GOD ME TOO.
I think tumblr has left a lot of us emotionally stunted. This is a great community for empowerment, catharsis, or coping, but those things aren’t recovery in and of themselves. Comparatively, they’re easy when compared to the painful self-reflection and real-world scenarios…
replaying the same level in a video game for the hundredth time
This Deadpool cosplayer is the most awesomest person ever
Here have a gif spam
I love this man
The best part about this man is that anytime anyone is a part of his fun and games he asks their consent ahead of time instead of assuming they want to be a part of it and I think that’s pretty rad. Plus this dude is amazing.
D Piddy
‘Galactus is Nigh’
D Piddy is literally the best.
fuckers acting like selfies are “unhealthy” and “self-absorbed” when old ass generations sat and got their selfies painted for hours by talented artists
ANCIENT EGYPTIANS MADE SOLID GOLD STATUES OF THEMSELVES. ANCIENT GREEKS/ROMANS MADE MARBLE FUCKING STATUES OF THEMSELVES. TAKE A DAMN SELFIE
guys please I think phoebedysquiths is going to do something drastic please if anyone knows her in reality call her or see her or something.
Here’s links to her on twitter and facebook, etc…
I don’t understand why people think Bucky would treat Steve like glass when before the serum he actually forced Steve to go on a ride that made him puke and then they laughed about it later.
rifa:
your 21+ year old boyfriend might treat you special and nice but
- there’s a reason why they can’t get girls their age
- they’re attracted to your naivety
- they’re attracted to children
- you might be mature, but they’re immature
- they can use your lack of experience to leave false impressions of what’s okay that will last you a lifetime
as a girl who went through this too many times while underage i’m just saying… something is wrong… please be safe
THIS THOUGH