I just read this super sad post about this girl who’s asexual and married and everyone is basically telling her that she doesn’t deserve her husband/she’s just a prude/she should just do it anyway.
So I want to tell you all right now that if people tell you this, or if they tell you you’ll never have a relationship, it is BULLSHIT.
My husband is asexual and I’m not. He’s sex repulsed, we don’t have sex, we never have.
And it doesn’t matter to me. You know what does? He does. His mental health and wellbeing matter to me. Because he is my best friend and he’s one of the smartest, kindest, funniest people I’ve ever met. And he’s had people tel him that he’s broken and it makes me SO ANGRY because they are WRONG.
Being different doesnt mean you’re broken.
If you don’t like sex/don’t want it/etc. Do not let anyone tell you that you’re inferior because you’re not.
Do not let anyone convice you that you’ll never have a relationship because they’re wrong(if you want one).
You are not broken, and it will be okay.
This made me feel really good. Remember this, for all my ace spectrum friends out there
I can’t stress to you how fucking important it is to tell your child you’re proud of them TO THEIR FACE. Don’t fucking wait until the moment they go into hysterics. Don’t wait until they tell you that they don’t think you’re proud of them. FUCKING TELL THEM EVERY DAY. Even if it’s something you don’t understand, and they’re BEAMING, you fucking tell that child you’re proud of them. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
What if aliens visited Earth during the Jurassic Period, found it to be occupied with a bunch of mean, giant lizards and thought “Well, fuck this planet” and never came back?
what if when humans went out into the galaxy all the aliens panicked because if the dinosaurs’ tiny fur snacks now had spaceships and laser blasters and interstellar colonies then what the fuck were the dinosaurs up to???
I work with people who have HIV as a part of my job. If you have HIV please remember:
HIV can be controlled by medications for a super long time (think 30 years+). It is more like getting a diabetes diagnosis than a death sentence.
No matter how your infection happened you deserve to live and have a happy life.
By federal law in the United States there is tons of resources to help you get medication for FREE.
You can find partners who will accept you and love you.
You can have children who are born HIV-. If a child is born in a first world county with medical care the likelyhood of transmission is rediculously low.
On medication your likelyhood of infecting others decreases significantly depending on your viral load.
PEP and PrEP are exciting things to look into to be able to have unprotected sex and prevent transmission.
HIV does not have to be central to your identity.
People who take their medication like prescribed can actually have as few as 2 doctor appointments a year for their condition !
Don’t let stigma, fear and lack of education get you down! You are a wonderful person and can achieve wonderful things. Don’t give up.
And if you don’t know your status please get tested. Please!
so yesterday i asked my mom if we could go to the movies and pretend to be famous so she was like okay and we saw trainwreck and we put on black leggins and sweatshirts and put the hoods up and then we had my brother come with us to be our *bodyguard* and one of my friends met us at the movies and like pretended to fangirl bc she was in on it and begged us for pictures and like 20 people after that took pictures with us and said how much of a fan they were im not even famous smh
Aries: Join the Skeleton War
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my mother, whilst pregnant, was exposed to unvaccinated kids who had measles. She got the virus, but my brother (26 weeks of gestation) was affected by the virus.
he has a degenerative neurological disorder called neuronal migration. My brother has cerebral palsy, epilepsy, and autism. He’s in a wheelchair. We communicate via sign language. he has fits. My brother, at 17, may catch a cold that’ll kill him. he’s nearly died twice because of pneumonia. He had a seizure last year, fell out of bed, and fractured his collarbone.
At the age of fourteen, I and my father had panic attacks when my brother had a seizure. His heart stopped. I, at fourteen, had to act the parent because my father was catatonic with grief because he thought he was losing his son.
vaccinate your fucking kids you selfish bastards.
you have no idea
NONE. AT ALL.
about the pain my parents suffer because my poor brother is so ill.
con:
full two minute long opening credit sequences like it's cool the first time maybe netflix but why does it have to be so long like do a full run the first time fine but after that just flash us the title u know your audience is binge watching this anyway u practically invented the binge watch so why does the content you created specifically for your platform contain such excessively long credits that the viewer is just gonna skip over anyway come on now
‘Hey bastard this store is already closed oh wait you’re hot
never mind please do come in’ AU
‘I’m on the verge of tears because of a rude customer and
you step in and stand up for me’ AU
‘I can feel you silently judging me as you ring up my
purchases I swear I’m not using these for their intended purpose’ au
‘Why does this cost TEN DOLLARS THIS IS AN OUTRAGE’ AU
Hairdresser
AU
‘You’re my
regular customer and I’m in love with the feel of your hair’ AU
“Rumor has
it that you’re a hairdresser with magic fingers and you can fix any bad hair
day so that’s why I’m here’ AU
Gift store AU
‘Why the fuck are you choosing that for a gift to your crush’ AU
‘You walk in and offer to pay me to wrap your gifts’ AU
Florist AU
‘I work as a florist and every day you walk in, buy one flower
and give it to me’ AU
‘I work part-time in a flower shop and you keep asking me about
what this flower means in flower language and I honestly don’t know so you end
up giving me a lesson’ AU
Jewellery shop AU
'You walk in and ask for the most expensive piece are you
loaded to the gills what the fuck man’ AU
‘I’m the employee and this is the first time ever I’ve met
you but you buy me a necklace saying the gem compliments my eyes’ AU
Coffee Shop AU
I write a bad pick up line on your cup every time I’m your
barista’ AU
'You’re the customer and you get back at me for all the
times I’ve spelt your name wrong by mispronouncing my name in increasingly
horrible ways’ AU
'You’re really short and cute and you buy a cup of black
coffee every morning but you make weird faces as you sip it and you never
finish your drink are you trying to look mature or something’ AU
'Should I be concerned about how much caffeine you’re taking
in’ AU
Bakery AU
'Your love of strawberry shortcake really doesn’t match your
appearance but i still think that’s really cute’ AU
'Every morning you walk in and inhale deeply then walk back
out seriously just buy something already’ AU
Drug Store/Chemist AU
'You embarrassedly place your items into the counter so I
call a price check just to make you feel more awkward, but it turns out one of your
items were actually overpriced’ AU
Bartender AU
'You’re the bartender and you catch someone slipping
something into my drink’ AU
‘I ask you to concoct something from all the ingredients on the list i gave you and it
ends up tasting so horrible and wrong that i can’t stop laughing’ AU
Teacher AU
We’re both teachers and at the end of the year we compare how
many gifts we’ve received from students and you’ve won for the past three
years’ AU
'Romeo and Juliet of the math and english dept. in school’
AU
Writer AU
I’m a writer and when it gets close to my deadlines I neglect
taking care of myself so you’ll pop in my house every so often to make sure I’m
doing okay’ AU
Fast food Chain AU
‘You just ordered a smile and I look at you like you’re
batshit insane before bursting out into laughter’ AU
‘You’re an employee and I have a crush on you so when you
hand me the soft serve I accidentally grab it by the ice cream instead of the
cone’ AU
‘We have a free refill policy for soft drink and you’ve
prepared several empty bottles what the fuck’ AU
Corner Shop AU
‘I see you come in here every day to buy the same drink and
one day I leave a message on the bottle’ AU
‘You run in looking really panicked and you ask for 6
gallons of milk why’ AU
Restaurant AU
‘You’re a famous critique and I’m a server and I get so
nervous that I trip and spill the dish all over you’ AU
‘You’ve always been a good cook so I encouraged your start
your own restaurant and seven years down the track you own one of the most successful
businesses’ AU
Idol/Manger AU
‘I’m your manager and holy shit you have crazy fans’ AU
‘You’re an idol and you got the lead role in a romance drama
and you practice at my expense’ AU
‘Can you please act appropriately do you know just how many
of your fuck ups I’ve had to cover up last week’ AU
Firefighter AU
‘You’ve just been saved from a burning building and you’re
begging to go back in to save your pet cat’ AU
“No that’s impossible
how the fuck did you manage to get it to catch fire?!” AU
Sex Line Operator AU
‘I called you because I was curious and wow you have a very
soothing voice can you please sing me to sleep’ AU
‘I have a very
cute neighbour and very thin walls and
one day I call you and err your moans
are very synchronised with my
neighbour’s’ AU
And Finally:
You’re a drug lord and I think I’ve just walked into your
drug den’ AU
Daemon - The only one you’re appropriating is Pullman and by appropriating Pullman you’re upsetting no-one, save possibly the Pope.
Patronus - Wizards everywhere are more than willing to lend you this term and the geekiness is an added bonus. I just read that geeks are sexy, or so the Metro, so, there you go, a patronus is clearly your next ascribed accessory.
just a heads up, if i ever weird you out on any level, too friendly, too flirty, anything at all, i encourage you to be very vocal towards me about it to make sure i dont continue to make you uncomfortable. i dont want anyone feeling like im not someone they can trust and be comfortable around.
Normalize vocalizing discomfort.
Last weekend, a guy that at that point I’d known for about 24 hours called me “darling“. I could tell he didn’t mean anything by it, but I (politely) asked that he not do that because I don’t like it. He looked surprised and got a little defensive - “oh, I call all my friends that!“ “Okay, well I’d still rather you didn’t“ “oh well harumph harumph sorry”
whereas the exchange should have gone
“blah blah blah, darling“
“oh please don’t call me that, I don’t care for that“
“oh I’m sorry, I won’t do that“ CONTINUE CONVERSATION
Normalize vocalizing discomfort.
Yep yep yep. I’ve literally had people give me weird looks because I correct them when they try to shorten my name. My own family members don’t call me by any nickname.
School:
haha there is no need for students to be stressed out about the exams .....,,,,, they r well prepared if they did the 12 hours of homework daily
Students:
if i throw myself down these stairs i have three more weeks to study
reasons i disagree with natasha being on team tony:
her speech at the end of catws saying how the government wasn’t going to arrest any of them bc they need them doesn’t sound like she’s all for superhero accountability
aware of the presence of hydra (possibly in the government) and how that could put registered people at risk
she’s shown little or no trust to the people on team iron man (as opposed to the level of trust she has with clint/steve); trust is a common theme in natasha’s characterization and is an important part of her relationships
not a reason i disagree with natasha being on team tony:
If anyonein California is interested in adopting a dog or a cat, Kerns County Animal Shelter ( one of the most disgraceful shelters in California ) is being shut down. Dogs are being sold for 15$ and cats for 5$ ( all are fixed with shots. )
today there was a “flash mob” set up by the seniors because it was their second to last day so they blasted the macarena over the loud speaker and did the dance in the main lobby but our headmaster knew about it so it wasn’t even funny but whilst walking past the elevator i found out why they really did this so called “flash mob”
You are not screaming into the void in vain. The void is just practicing active listening and wants you to let it all out without feeling like it is judging or trying to speak over you
