Rise Up, Oh Heart, For There is Another Battle to Win
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I asked my followers to send their experiences with sexual assault and Misogyny with gay men and this is what I got.
Women aren’t the only people who are targeted by gay misogyny, dfab trans people are targeted…
‘Gay mysogyny’, bahaha. Half of this shit doesn’t sound like stuff a gay person would be interested in doing, and they all seem unlikely/anecdotal. Sorry, I doubt there’s too many legitimate gay men who are interested in feeling you up, ladies. That isn’t how it works. Sounds more to me like 'a guy I liked is gay so I need to vent my frustrations by submitting bullshit stories’ more than anything. Or the guys doing this were just pretending to be gay to get to you.
Regardless, there’s no such thing as ‘gay mysogyny’, and brief, anonymous stories shared in a 250 character space isn’t proof of it.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Is a man who molests a male child suddenly “gay” because the child he molested is male? Sexual assault has nothing to do with sexuality.
The idea that women/dfab people were simply sexually frustrated that these men weren’t interested in them (a lot of these women are lesbians) is asinine.
There was a post about how when little boys playing fps games or games where they compete against people online use “rape”, that they don’t mean it in a sexual way at all.The post said that what they mean when they use the word rape is they dominated that person. Rape has nothing to do with sex. It has to do with power,as does sexual assault. Sexual assault is a power play and people who commit sexual assault want to feel that they have power over someone.
And another thing, I (as a woman) don’t give a fuck what you think a gay person would do. Gay people(specifically gay men) are already doing these things. Women and dfab people would like them to fucking stop.
This really does need to stop, it is not okay whatsoever and men/women need to respect others and end sexual assaults… but one thing about this topic that irritates me is that (most of) you people are speaking of gay people in general as if we all grope. You’re suddenly thinking because I’m gay I’m going to sexually assault someone. Especially the homophobic people I see really attacking us and giving us a bad image.
My point here being:
1: all people, STOP the sexual assaults.
2: not every gay man will sexually assault you. I will respect you.
3: if you dare sexually assault someone in anyway possible, you’re disgusting and how dare you.I can’t stand how many times i put disclaimers on things and people refuse to read them or hear them. This has never been about all gay men. I feel like I said that 3 times in this post alone.
And like I said, not all, but *most* people are directly targeting gays. This is not the 1st post I’ve seen related to this topic. Here’s my 2nd disclaimer, I can go onto my 3rd as well.
You need to come for them. miss me with that bullshit. This conversation has never been about all gay men. Take that up with the people who ARE implying it’s about all gay men.
freedom of speech doesn’t protect you from the social repercussion of your words, remember that next time you try using that as a justification to spew hate.
hope you like living in your totalitarian world
god forbid you live in a world where your words have consequences
I highly recommend giving up music snobbery. It makes life 1000% more fun.
#liking things is just so much more fun than not liking things
What I especially love about Peggy is, in so many books and T.V. shows when we do get a strong female character, we often get the “I’m not like other girls,” superior-sounding speech or the “special snowflake” syndrome. But Peggy has never belittled other women, or thought herself above them, and she treats Angie the waitress and Rose the the telephone operator with nothing but respect and friendliness.
I actually let out a pleased little squeak when I saw this because ohhh man, that is beautiful.
But it starts on Sunday…
Because that’s when the new week starts…
1) we have all seen Jurassic Park
2) we would all still resurrect dinosaurs in a heartbeat
don’t date someone you wouldn’t have a harry potter movie marathon with
That’s nearly 24 hours. I wouldn’t do that with anyone
…the weak are already weeding themselves out…
Do you ever get a sign that your ship is so near canon that its been blessed by the Pope, given a knighthood, freedom of the city and the nobel peace prize?
So today I was sitting in a lockdown at school and this kid in my classroom whistled the mocking jay shit and literally people from all of the school repeated it and now we have an assembly about how it was inappropriate
Stop telling kids that they’re too young to know they’re queer but also stop spreading the idea that all queer people know they’re “different” from a very young age. Some people realize they’re queer when they’re five and some people don’t until they’re thirty-five and no one should have to justify their identity at any age.
You’re stealing roles from trans women who have struggled for recognition in the performance field for a long time. Stop doing that. Trans women actors need to stop getting thrown under the bus by cis people in the performance field.
All pedophiles are trash, no exceptions. There is no “Kink-shaming” about it. Protect survivors at all costs.
trans people taking testosterone need to drink orange juice cause testosterone weakens your immune system!! trans people taking estrogen need to drink milk cause estrogen causes calcium to be absorbed less
If you’re lactose intolerant you can eat nuts and if you’re allergic to oranges, most other fruits have vitamin c. If fruits aren’t an option, there’s also vitamin c supplements.
Good info. Pass it on.
Might I just point out that Mercutio got stabbed in the gut and, instead of seeking medical help, stood up and made a pun about it then died.
Exactly how I would go out.
The original Purple Hawke.
flower crowns are so last week.
everyone knows this is what’s in
FLOWER BEARDS
Hugging shorter people and resting your head on theirs
Hugging taller people and having your head against their chest
Hugging people your height and pressing your face against their shoulder
Hugging people and getting picked up by them
HUGGING
i touched a dick once and it was the scariest thing in my life because it had a really cold head and i don’t know it wasn’t fun
sometimes the ‘i’ and ‘u’ shouldn’t be so close on the keyboard
ive seen this post umpteen times and ive always thought that if you switched u and i around it wouldn’t make sense like “u touched a” and i literally just realised you meant duck and not dick i swear to god i am the biggest fucking idiot.
what happens if u put a werewolf on the moon is a great question probably the best question ever asked
he’ll explode and die because there’s no oxygen on the moon
We never said we’d send him up without a suit you absolute monster
conversation overheard at the gryffindor table over breakfast between sirius black and james potter
mcu headcannon: the only human on earth worthy of mjolnir is darcy lewis
It’s not punk to antagonize minimum wage workers.
Like writing shit on bathroom stalls, making messes in grocery and big box stores, trashing hotel rooms, yelling at actual workers about how horrible their capitalist employers are. Stop doing this shit. You are making life harder for those you claim to identify with and want to help.
why can’t there be a boob transfer system for all women?? like, a girl can be like “I have an F cup and I really want to go down a couple of sizes because my back hurts” and a girl with an A cup could be like “Oh could you transfer some of ur boob tissue to me because I’d like to go up a size” and it would be done
do you have any idea how great that would be
ok but imagine if trans boys could donate their boobs to trans girls
boob co-ops 2k15
Darren Wilson still has not been arrested or charged.
Maybe you didn’t hear, but there was this thing that happened. What was it called… oh yeah a trial.
there literally was no trial, a grand jury was manipulated into not indicting him by self-admitted false witnesses you’re just fucking lying
Peggy and Steve: people who, once they are your friend, will risk their reputation, lives, and career to save your ass.
Sigh.
Bro: *holds up meat mallet* Do you still need Thor’s hammer?
Me: Mjolnir.
Bro: Gesundheit.
Me: No, Mjolnir.
Bro: What?
Me: Thor’s hammer. It’s called Mjolnir.
Bro: Muy-mya?
Me:….Never mind. No, I don’t need it.
In short - Apparently, my little brother is Darcy Lewis.
People mistake ovulation and menstruation to be the same thing when in fact they aren’t
Ovulation is when the eggs are saying “hello friends I am here”
And menstuation is when the eggs are saying “goodbye friends I am gone”
THIS EXPLAINS THE DIFFERENCE 40x BETTER THAN MY ENTIRE SEVENTH GRADE SEX ED CLASS.
Omfg
goodbye friends i am gone and I AM TAKING EVERYTHING WITH ME
Basically, Sophie Hunter has what every girl wants.
A DRESS WITH POCKETS.
(x)
Damn straight.
