There are two types of people in the world: those who react to learning that you can use touch screens with your tongue with disgust and those who immediately go to lick their phones.
i’m gonna go ahead and assume that the reason this doesn’t have many notes is because you’re all too busy making out with your phones
i’m so glad this has taken off because
i was right
(Source: shorm, via anacfranco)
lets play “how rude can i be until u realize i dont like u”
(Source: ouijasquiji, via starwarsisgay)
if i ever misgender you or use slang (bro, man, gurl, dude) that makes you feel even slightly uncomfortable please tell me because your gender identity and comfort is more important than any word i may use to refer to you
(via cthulhu-with-a-fez)
“What were you wearing?”
I wore a red dress to work today. It has a zipper at either side of my chest that can unzip and reveal a thin strip of skin. A coworker, without warning, tried pulling at the zipper and when it wouldn’t zip, instead revealed a good portion of my collarbone and shoulder as well as my bra strap. An hour later, the same coworker came up and told me to not wear clothes with zippers because he’ll go right ahead and unzip them. I shot back that unzipping me without my permission is sexual harassment. Apparently a manager heard and berated my coworker. At the end of my shift, my coworker told me that my little comment got him in trouble and that he no longer feels comfortable saying anything to me other than “hello” and “goodbye.”
I am supposed to feel guilty for pointing out that he can’t lay his fucking hands on me.
So I wore the infamous dress at work yesterday and ANOTHER MALE COWORKER DECIDED TO PULL AT ONE OF MY FUCKING ZIPPERS.
We were surrounded by other (also male) coworkers (that did nothing) and I swatted his hand away while promptly informing him that he didn’t have permission to touch me.He then asked, since he knows I cosplay, if it would be any different if I wore a revealing costume. I gave him a dirty look and told him that no matter what *I* decide to wear, no one is allowed “to lay a finger on me unless they want my foot up their ass.”
Being that I’m quite professional at work, they were all surprised by my language and the ferocity with which I spat my promise.
you fucking go girl
fuckin right hella ya ALRIGHT
(via bleedingwillow96)
Gay Men + Misogyny + Sexual Assault -
I asked my followers to send their experiences with sexual assault and Misogyny with gay men and this is what I got.
Women aren’t the only people who are targeted by gay misogyny, dfab trans people are targeted…
‘Gay mysogyny’, bahaha. Half of this shit doesn’t sound like stuff a gay person would be interested in doing, and they all seem unlikely/anecdotal. Sorry, I doubt there’s too many legitimate gay men who are interested in feeling you up, ladies. That isn’t how it works. Sounds more to me like 'a guy I liked is gay so I need to vent my frustrations by submitting bullshit stories’ more than anything. Or the guys doing this were just pretending to be gay to get to you.
Regardless, there’s no such thing as ‘gay mysogyny’, and brief, anonymous stories shared in a 250 character space isn’t proof of it.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Sexual attraction isn’t a requirement for sexual assault.
Is a man who molests a male child suddenly “gay” because the child he molested is male? Sexual assault has nothing to do with sexuality.
The idea that women/dfab people were simply sexually frustrated that these men weren’t interested in them (a lot of these women are lesbians) is asinine.
There was a post about how when little boys playing fps games or games where they compete against people online use “rape”, that they don’t mean it in a sexual way at all.The post said that what they mean when they use the word rape is they dominated that person. Rape has nothing to do with sex. It has to do with power,as does sexual assault. Sexual assault is a power play and people who commit sexual assault want to feel that they have power over someone.
And another thing, I (as a woman) don’t give a fuck what you think a gay person would do. Gay people(specifically gay men) are already doing these things. Women and dfab people would like them to fucking stop.
This really does need to stop, it is not okay whatsoever and men/women need to respect others and end sexual assaults… but one thing about this topic that irritates me is that (most of) you people are speaking of gay people in general as if we all grope. You’re suddenly thinking because I’m gay I’m going to sexually assault someone. Especially the homophobic people I see really attacking us and giving us a bad image.
My point here being:
1: all people, STOP the sexual assaults.
2: not every gay man will sexually assault you. I will respect you.
3: if you dare sexually assault someone in anyway possible, you’re disgusting and how dare you.I can’t stand how many times i put disclaimers on things and people refuse to read them or hear them. This has never been about all gay men. I feel like I said that 3 times in this post alone.
And like I said, not all, but *most* people are directly targeting gays. This is not the 1st post I’ve seen related to this topic. Here’s my 2nd disclaimer, I can go onto my 3rd as well.
You need to come for them. miss me with that bullshit. This conversation has never been about all gay men. Take that up with the people who ARE implying it’s about all gay men.
(via bleedingwillow96)
freedom of speech doesn’t protect you from the social repercussion of your words, remember that next time you try using that as a justification to spew hate.
hope you like living in your totalitarian world
god forbid you live in a world where your words have consequences
(via bleedingwillow96)
I highly recommend giving up music snobbery. It makes life 1000% more fun.
#liking things is just so much more fun than not liking things
(via cthulhu-with-a-fez)
What I especially love about Peggy is, in so many books and T.V. shows when we do get a strong female character, we often get the “I’m not like other girls,” superior-sounding speech or the “special snowflake” syndrome. But Peggy has never belittled other women, or thought herself above them, and she treats Angie the waitress and Rose the the telephone operator with nothing but respect and friendliness.
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