I bloody love Hardison. I did before this but this scene turned him into one of my favourite characters ever (and given the amount I watch/read that’s an achievement). He has feelings for Parker but doesn’t push them, doesn’t expect anything from her, knows that she has problems forming emotional attachments. And here when he finds out his feelings are reciprocated he doesn’t push her into anything. He knows she’s finding it hard and steps back to wait until she is ready. And then add in the fact he’s a geek, funny, super crazy intelligent, and rather hot to boot….well I never stood a chance. 

Alec Hardison is the antidote to toxic masculinity this world so desperately needs

I think my favorite thing about Hardison is how unapologetically and enthusiastically he loves what he loves. He’s is an incredible character and I agree with you 110%.