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June 26, 2016
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marichatnoitte:

melancholicmarionette:

marichatnoitte:

Semi obbsessing over the idea of Adrien getting used to having friends like yeah hed be over eager at first and at school but like what about the stuff he never thought about like just simple shit like Nino texting him at 3 am like “do you think dogs are racist to other breeds of dogs would that be fucked up or what?” and adrien just sitting there like ???????????? And googling what he should do

no lie I really want to believe this is what they talk about

Adrien shows up to school with like 14 printed out articles on dog aggression towards other dogs and Nino is so fucking excited because he sent the same text to Alya and she only responded with “GO THE FUCK TO SLEEP”. Marinette is visibly upset for the rest of the day after learning about dog racism.

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June 03, 2016
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babycrawlingveryfast:

there is a common thread that I’ve noticed among women wherein many of us (rightfully) believe ourselves to be good girlfriends and wives. and this isn’t without reason. entering into a romantic relationship and we naturally mold ourselves to our partners wants and needs. we think, I’m going to throw the shirt they left here in the wash so they don’t have to worry about cleaning it later. I’m going to pick up ingredients at the market for their favorite meal and make it for them. I’m going to leave a glass of water on their nightstand for when they wake up. I’m going to inconvenience myself in this small way in order to make their life marginally easier. these sacrifices hardly even feel like sacrifices. if anything they’re pleasurable: their happiness is your happiness. and yet it’s clear to me that this is a particularly deeply entrenched tendril of socialization. men rarely think like this, rarely reorient their thinking so radically when in a relationship. it presents a dilemma for women. you can either continue being overtly caring and nurturing, even if it’s not reciprocated or even necessarily appreciated, or you can actively become more withholding, which is emotionally taxing in its own right. what can you do. womanhood is synonymous with dissatisfaction and disillusionment

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Tags: this is a thing hardcore i'm generally not overtly helpful but i do some of this stuff for friends as well as romantic partners (i like to see people smile at me it's a security thing when people are smiling they're happy with me) and generally my female friends not only notice but thank me whereas the dude i was dating a couple years back didn't generally notice and furthermore on one of the few occasions i really drew the line and said 'you need to go home because i have to take care of someone else' he fucking guilt-tripped the shit out of me for it for not taking care of HIM and HIS emotions first and foremost for reference the 'someone else' was my then-roommate who had been drugged without her knowledge at a dance it was 12:30 at night and i was the only person awake on the whole campus who knew anything medical so it was down to me to make sure that this girl with a laundry list of pre-existing conditions was okay and didn't need the hospital (which she couldn't afford because college) and GOD FORBID i tell my boyfriend that right that second his emotional need to be around me was coming second to the need to ensure that someone i considered a friend wasn't dying